We live in a world of LABELS! We label EVERYTHING based on what we can see on the surface, and the reality is that the true depth of most people is found in their heart, which is something that takes time to see.
I've recently been having a difficult time navigating talking about (or not talking about) Lyme with healthy people. I've had so many experiences where it seems like the second I mention Lyme in a friendship or relationship, then the massive brick wall of Lyme disease is now placed between me and that person. This phenomenon of a Lymie's social life can often leave those of us who are suffering feeling alone and misunderstood.
While it's true that Lyme disease plays a huge role in my life and has sculpted me into the person that I am today, I promise that I live for more than just dozens of pills, treatment protocols, and eating organic. I'm not just the "sick girl" that needs help. I'm a girl that loves writing and singing. I'm a girl with the big heart that laughs a lot and has this deep need inside her to help those who are suffering. I'm the girl who's been beaten and broken down by the storms of life, but is in every way healing and striving every day to keep a smile on her face (even if some days I totally fail at it.)
The truth is that I will proudly wear the title of "Lymie" on my sleeve, but that doesn't mean that I'm not still 100% Claire. There is so much more to people who suffer from chronic illness and disability. You simply have to give them a chance. You are not the sum of your trauma, and you are not your illness. Most of the souls inside of these broken-down bodies are absolutely beautiful, and we must remember that as we interact with those who have walked different paths and traveled difficult roads.
Comment below if you can relate to having a hard time getting through the "chronic illness wall" with people, and what you do to remedy the negative labels that people can place on the chronically ill!