Dear Future Husband,
You're probably comfortably settled in your bed right now, laying on your back with your hands tucked up behind your head. And you're probably staring at the ceiling, contemplating work, school, and other various complications of life. You may or may not be asleep, but either way you're probably thinking or dreaming about your future. And while your thoughts are dancing through your mind at this very moment, I'm thinking about you. I'm fantasizing the first time we meet, our first date, our first kiss, and every memory we'll make thereafter. I'm questioning if I'll ever find you, or if you're simply a distant dream. I’m lying in my cozy bed, wrapped in my comforting blankets, clutching a pillow close to me, wondering if you're thinking of me too But future husband, where ever you are, and whoever you are, if you’re thinking of me, I bet you've never considered marrying a “sick girl.” You'll never consider it until you meet me. And when you meet me, I hope you'll be able to look beyond the disease and see the person that is so much more than the illness that her body houses. Just know, chronic illness or not, I intend on being the best wife you could ever ask for, and I truly hope that your intentions toward me are the same. You should know that it won't always be easy. I suppose an undertaking as celestial as marriage is never easy, but I truly believe that marriage is what you make of it, and what you put into it is what you’ll get out of it. I’ll put my whole heart and soul into our marriage. And through it all, God will guide us, He will never leave us. But before we dive into matrimony, there are things you'll need to know. Marriage with a sick person is no easy task, but I promise I'll make it worth your while, and I promise that through it all, I'll always love you. Here are the things I want you to know:
Your Loving Future Wife
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Austin Gatica
5/21/2016 17:32:11
Well Claire, i find this post rather interesting and very admirable and touching. Seeing as you and i have known eachother for a long time, i was never aware of your sickness and pain. My last relationship i was in, i dated a very sickly girl so finding how this article is not just beautiful, it is also insightful and helps me understand alot more than i did so i thank you.
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Aaron Edwards
4/11/2019 21:09:15
Claire, you're very enlightening! This should be a template of all meaningful relationships, illness or not. You're an ideal woman any man would be fortunate to have. I came accross an article that led me here. Larned something new that was completely off my life radar. To detail your experience with how your life is with your condition was very insightful. You definitely have inner strength and courage. For you to bring attention to this disease is very inspiring and helpful. If I should ever meet my future significant other with this condition, your blogs will have already opened my eyes to this. You're Awesome!
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